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Helping people in kindness vs through ego

How we help people, either in kindness from the heart, or from are egos makes a difference in how it affects the person or people and us as a whole. When you help others from your heart, this helps people in a significant way, but when you help from the ego. That is, with the intention of making yourself feel good for your deed. This does not help the person or people. No love is shared when you help others from the ego. And this does not help you either.


Helping others means being guided by your heart. That means being receptive to the needs of others. And letting your heart guide you to the person or people who you can help. When a person helps out of ego, that is they go looking for others to help, they are not being guided by their hearts. They are only looking to feed their egos to make themselves feel good. This in the end does not help one because it only makes the ego grow and the ego is an illusory aspect of our being. It is not who we really are. It is only an aspect of us meant to give us a sense of self.


This is what I have learned from my personal adventures letting go of my selfishness. When I help someone I don't think about it. As in I don't go looking for someone to help. I let myself be receptive to the needs of others. That is, if there is someone out there who I can help, I allow my heart to be open to them and help them however possible. I've noticed that you will be guided to those who you can help. Either they will guide you to them or you will be guided to them. This is not something you can intentionally do. You must be guided by the heart and not the mind i.e the ego. You can set the intention, but you must let go, and have no expectations of how it will happen.


When we are in a position to help others, and we do so, it shows the universe we have love within ourselves and enough to give to others. This not only expands are hearts, but opens the doorways to abundance, as you are signaling you have enough to give and so you will receive more. And the more you receive the more you can give. But always do it from the heart, not because you feel a need or obligation to. Doing so creates a false sense of duty and this can cloud your judgment and negatively impact the connection with your heart. Learn to move in guidance with your heart and you be guided always to the right place at the right time.


The act of doing something nobody would expect from another person can open their heart and help them significantly. When you go out of your way to do something for someone who would normally never receive such help can open the doorways to unconditional love for them. This is why you let yourself be receptive to others needs and let your heart guide you to them and then let the answer in how you can help them come to you in the moment. You will touch their soul in a way nobody else ever has. You will know this is right because the person will be open to your help rather then someone who wouldn't be.


Helping others means doing so because you want the best for them. Never help someone because you want to feel good. Helps others because you want them to prosper. And in return you will also prosper because that is the vibration you are putting out. Spread love, light and positivity by being a beacon of hope by performing acts of kindness that touch others souls and open them to unconditional love. If you come across someone who you feel you can help but they seem on the fence at first, give them a little push, and show them your willingness. Be that first person in their lives to show them there are people out there who are different. And in turn they will change to become the people who will do the same for others. Do that thing for another that nobody did for you. And see how fast the world around you changes for the better.


I thank you the reader for reading this blog post. I send you my love and gratitude. May you prosper in love and abundance. With blessings of love, light, and peace. Be blessed in all things that are enriching to the soul and the spirit.


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